Most misunderstandings come from an immediate offense from what someone has said, followed by an unwillingness to hear anymore. I believe that so many have been at the verge of a break thru but that fear of being challenged, rejected,misunderstood or hurt yanked them right back and holds them in the same spot.
If you are not clear in what you want, you wind up with what you get.
Now, even in the contrast of life, we are able to learn about what we want and don't want. It is up to us, in those times, not to focus on what we don't want (because what we focus on, we amplify) but to zoom in on what it is we do want!
I suggested to a client last week to wr...