"One monkey don't stop no show" unless you let it! By focusing on what you perceive someone is doing to or against you and not on what your job, purpose and/or position is, keeps the "monkey on your back", impedes progress and creates opportunities for bitterness, paranoia and depression. Be clear on your goal. Focus on getting to it. Anything or anyone not beneficial to your success, acknowledge, learn, send thanks but keep it moving. I mean what matters most? What has been
If you are not clear in what you want, you wind up with what you get. Now, even in the contrast of life, we are able to learn about what we want and don't want. It is up to us, in those times, not to focus on what we don't want (because what we focus on, we amplify) but to zoom in on what it is we do want!
I suggested to a client last week to write down all the things that they
knew now that they wanted and focus on that. I took my own advice and I am expecting to get that